“If a person can’t get out of bed, something is making them exhausted. If a student isn’t writing papers, there’s some aspect of the assignment that they can’t do without help. If an employee misses deadlines constantly, something is making organization and deadline-meeting difficult. Even if a person is actively choosing to self-sabotage, there’s a reason for it — some fear they’re working through, some need not being met, a lack of self-esteem being expressed. People do not choose to fail or disappoint. No one wants to feel incapable, apathetic, or ineffective. If you look at a person’s action (or inaction) and see only laziness, you are missing key details. There is always an explanation. There are always barriers. Just because you can’t see them, or don’t view them as legitimate, doesn’t mean they’re not there. Look harder. Maybe you weren’t always able to look at human behavior this way. That’s okay. Now you are. Give it a try.”
(And a footnote I didn’t see explicitly covered in the article: laziness still doesn’t exist when it is you yourself making no progress and not knowing why. You deserve that respect and consideration, too, even from yourself.)
Whiles the plastic skeleton necklace that Justine Bateman is wearing thankfully never caught on, the black gloves are a timeless classic piece of fashion.
Big time whatever to whomever wrote this, that necklace is dope.
I’ll never understand why 25+ year old men want to fuck 18/19 year olds.
It’s so weird to me.
Just because it’s legal. That doesn’t make it right.
I really be trying to tell you young bitches to not be flattered by the attention from these dudes because these motherfuckers want to control you and suck the youth out of you… they can’t pull no stunt like that with women their age, that’s why they’re coming after you.
